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2.2.24

All in a Day’s Commute

Chandeliers at the Grand Central Terminal


Bus chase

Was so immersed in the breakfast table conversation with S about devolving social ethos, while enjoying our latest favorite bread, sourdough, with melted brie cheese and fresh blackberries. Bonus - cup of coffee made by S, especially for me. 

In all of this, lost track of time…as usual (7:55am!). Asked S to drop me off at the bus stop, if necessary chase the bus - which we ended up doing. As luck would have it, today’s bus driver, a tiny lady, turned out to be a mean one (they tend to be kind). Even though I was at the door, she deliberately left me behind. So I got back in the car, chased her again to the next stop, went in front of her, cinematically (& dangerously) blocked her to get in to the bus - she was not happy & gave me an earful. I was in a defiant mood initially. But later, after speaking with S, thinking about people like Nando, our crossing guard & recalling my dad’s oft-repeated belief that most people are generally good (he used a more nuanced Tamil phrase. He had arrived at that conclusion after going through such unimaginable hardships in life - makes me think he must be right)…I calmed down & wished her a happy Friday while getting off. 

Upside - the commute was so fast. I got to my desk in less than an hr!! (8:50am)

Quick Catch-up

Ran into J’s dad (perks of taking public transit - you always run into someone). He was in a jolly mood. He was going to go on a city tour…on this rainy day, with some business visitors. Wished him too another happy Friday & went my way.

The Door-Holders

I usually see a few people holding the doors between the port authority bus terminal & the subway stations. They hold a cup in another hand for collecting money. I have a hard time giving away cash to beggars. There is so much internal friction. Recently I had decided that once in a while I will draw out a currency note (not coins) from my purse & hand it to the door-holders. This was more of a deliberate effort to train myself to give a bit more freely. I also justified this act thinking they were in fact performing a useful service by holding these heavy doors for us, which would be a pain for someone like me to prop open every time I pass through.


The other interesting thing is there is usually a bit of competition for the door-holder job. There are only so many doors & we have many more eager holders vying for these limited spots.


This AM though, there were no door-holders…but the door stayed open. Looks like they just stay open like that & there is no need for anyone to stand there & hold it. Wonder if the door-holders were merely touching the door, pretending to be doing something that was happening anyway 😁.

Turnstile-Jumpers

A really big guy ahead of me jumped the turnstiles only to see a cop standing right in front of him 😬…he did a quick flip & jumped back out (perhaps because it was faster than walking out) & started running. Another cop who was much shorter & smaller than the jumper swiftly chased him & grabbed him by the hoodie neck…it was such an action-packed scene - good fuel to kick start a busy day.

4.4.20

Narnia Festival...When Do We Celebrate Again?

Scenic Vistas of Narni, Italy

Co-authored with Sriram Padmanabhan
It seems like a dream now. Even then, it felt like one. It was July 2019, an era before coronavirus, and we were in Narni, close to the geographical center of Italy, in the Umbria region. In this rustic setting, we found artisans who invested time and patience into perfecting their craft - makers of pasta, fine jewelry, metal artwork and of course, gelato. The cobbled streets, the relaxed and convivial people, the pizzerias, and charming coffee shops (oh, the cappuccino!) conspired to form the perfect backdrop for the town’s annual music festival. 

14.6.17

Photography Tips - Just In Time For Your Summer Vacation

Recently I put together some quick photography tips for a friend. Years ago she had purchased a nice DSLR camera which was collecting dust. She wanted to put it to use during her upcoming summer vacation. I jotted down these quick tips to help her get started. 

Equipment basics:
1. Flash - There are some instances where a flash is useful but in most outdoor, daytime situations, it creates ugly shadows. My suggestion is to turn it off to take pictures during your summer travels where you are likely to be spending time outdoors.

2. ISO - Leave it on "AUTO".

Camera settings for shutter speed and aperture - the only 2 modes that you would need to get started.

3. Shutter speed - When taking pictures of moving objects e.g., kids running around, moving bus or train or a waterfall, set the camera in the "shutter priority mode" and use a high shutter speed. In a Nikon camera, it is the "S" mode. In a canon, it is usually the "Tv" mode. Refer to your camera manual to know what it is called. 
Do not use this mode for taking pictures of still objects or scenery.

4. Aperture - Almost always use the "Aperture priority" mode. "A" mode in Nikon/the "Av" mode in a canon.

Use only the above 2 modes, "Aperture priority" 90% of the time and "shutter priority" to capture moving objects. Do not use full "auto" or full "manual". Full auto doesn't give you the best results. Full manual is too time consuming hence not suitable for everyday/travel photography.